I'm 30 as is she.
We have always had a weird friendship where I am always there for her but she rarely is for me.
Despite all that we had good times and spoke on the phone daily.
The last year it was always me texting her first and if I didn't she wouldn't bother but this is where it gets childish ..if I didn't text her she would say "why haven't you bothered texting me" "what's wrong with you" blah blah.
She always expected me to chase after her.
I got sick of this and didn't speak to her for about 5 weeks then randomly her mum blocked me on Facebook (always got on great with her mum,popped to shops for her etc) so I sent my friend a message and she replied ask her ..then says oh must of been my nephew (8 months old).
Then I said look this is ridiculous,i shouldn't be the one having to chase you to talk.
Her mum unblocked me.
We spoke again for 5 days then I didn't contact her so she hasn't contacted me,I just think I'm too old for this childish shit.
It's been 2 months.
Her mum then reblocked me on Facebook.
I deactivated my account and opened a new one(without her or her mum added) I had that for a few days and just out of curiosity searched for them and they had blocked me on my new Facebook (I hadn't sent a request or anything they obviously just blocked me)
Then her aunty deletes and blocks me and our mutual guy friend (who lives a few doors from me,deleted and blocked me then deleted me off Twitter and blocked my number)
I don't understand.
Basically if I don't make some communication to her she plays the victim and makes me out to be awful and god knows what else she's saying to her mum/aunty/friend etc
Does anyone understand this?
I've done nothing wrong.