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I caught him looking at his ex on facebook

34 replies

VIX1307 · 17/07/2016 16:26

So long story short, i popped up to the shops and was gone no longer than tens mins. When i came back i looked through the window on my way in and my boyfriend of 2 years, was sitting on the sofa back to me. I could see he was going through photos of his ex on facebook (split up 2 years ago) and they are no longer friends on it so he must have purposely searched to find her profile. Not only did he go through her photos but then proceeded to look at every male profile who had "liked" her photo.
When i confronted him he said it was bad timing and he rarely looks and it was pure curiosity. It just seems pretty shit to think that this is what he gets up to when im out of site for ten minutes.

Is this something i should be worried about? :(

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talksensetome · 17/07/2016 17:42

Another ex stalker here. Just nosy I am afraid.

EstellaHavisham · 17/07/2016 18:19

Has your DH had a new phone in the last 2 years? Just wondering why she would be stored under 'S' if it was her and they'd split 2 years ago.
Oh and what a drip feed

ImperialBlether · 17/07/2016 18:24

I thought that's what FB was for!

VIX1307 · 17/07/2016 18:29

I dont even know if "S" is her or not. I didnt mention it at the time as didnt want to cause an unneccessary row and look lile i didnt trust him. Yes its a new phone since they have split up. Its always been at the back of my mind slightly but now this has made me wonder if they are in touch. He swore he isnt though so not sure what to do?

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PortiaCastis · 17/07/2016 18:33

I got a phone call in the middle of the night from exdh, I told him to fuck right off and moved his name to C because hes a cunt.

ShowOfHands · 17/07/2016 18:33

Any other pertinent info you've missed out? Went out for a drink and was gone 3 days? Smells of her perfume occasionally? She gave him a bj the other day during the Wimbledon women's final?

PortiaCastis · 17/07/2016 18:34

Lipstick on his knob?

Evergreen17 · 17/07/2016 18:36

I look at my exes profiles every once in a while

I am curious!!!!

Confused
StarStudded · 17/07/2016 18:43

I look at exes profiles all the time- even ones who I'd never go back to in a month of Sunday's. It's nothing more than curiosity and sometimes you do get a bit sucked in looking at their pictures and comments etc.

Unless there are other reasons not to trust him with her, I wouldn't be to concerned.

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