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Unreasonable behaviour from DH

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poppygolightly · 15/07/2016 06:52

This week my fridge freezer has broken so I've been buying food every night for immediate consumption. I came back from the supermarket last night with a meal for the four of us and some milk. In front of my children aged 8 and 10 my husband called me a fucking bitch for not getting any butter and then stormed out of the house. 2 hours later he came home and went straight to bed ignoring me. This morning he has left early without speaking to me even though we were both in the kitchen.
What the hell is going on and what should I do? He didn't ask me for butter and had been at home all day so if he really needed some could have got some. I cannot forgive him for swearing at me in front of the children over something so petty and I had to pull up my 10 year old son for being abusive as he didn't like his dinner as well as speak to my kids about daddy using words we should never say.

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LindyHemming · 16/07/2016 04:36

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2ManySweets · 16/07/2016 07:45

Hello OP, hope all's well and that your DH has disengaged his head from his arse. Let us know you're ok.

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MilesHuntsWig · 16/07/2016 09:12

Hope you're ok OP

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tofutti · 16/07/2016 10:10

Agree with others. Don't let this blow over.

23 years is a lot of history, but the rest of your life is even longer, to be spent with someone who doesn't respect you and treats you like his emotional punching bag.

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EstellaHavisham · 16/07/2016 18:15

Only read the OP but my first thought is that when my XH was shagging his OW he used to do stuff like this all the time. Pick fights so he had an excuse to justify his shitty behaviour....I hope I am wrong though.

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