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Boyfriend is secretly taking Viagra

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Slummamumma · 11/07/2016 13:55

Hi, I found out last weekend - accidentally - that my boyfriend is secretly taking Viagra (I was putting clean pants away in his drawer). There were 3 tablets there last Sunday. We don't live together but have a very firm and committed relationship and are getting married nxt year. I only see him at the weekends. I went to get some pants out of the drawer for him on Saturday afternoon this weekend (the children had soaked us with water pistols from the paddling pool and I was fetching dry clothes for us). There was only 1 tablet left. The only night I have spent with him since last Sunday was Friday night and he fell asleep on the sofa at 9.30 so no Viagra session for us! What has he done with the other two tablets (and they have been taken as the packaging was there but empty). I don't know what to do. I have no reason to think he is unfaithful and we speak very night of the week so no opportunities either. Feel very confused. Maybe it's nothing and I should just leave it. WWYD?

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SandyY2K · 11/07/2016 17:58

On another forum a woman had the same question as you. Some of the men chimed in and said it could be for masturbation and also as someone said a friend could have given it to him.

Apparently it's quite common for guys to talk about this and swap pills and ideas.

From way back when - an Ex of mine said one of his mates would talk about sex tips and ways of lasting longer.

Slummamumma · 11/07/2016 17:59

needanivoftea hoping we have found the answer! I will mention to him at the weekend that I have found them but in a gentle way as I really don't want to offend him. This was at his house at the weekend in his pants drawer so he's not exactly hiding them. If he was using them to cheat you'd think he wouldn't let me put his clothes away knowing where they were. Right I am settling for this explanation! Thanks for input MNetters

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Slummamumma · 11/07/2016 18:02

SandyY2K thank you, that's helpful. Think it is all very innocent then

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