He's lied!

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DH has gone out drinking today with friends from work. They're mostly female. I dropped him off at the station for his 11.15am (rural service) train to the city for an early drinking session before taking DS to his swimming lesson. He said he'd be back on the last train at 9pm if not before. I got a text from him at 5 saying he wouldn't be home before 10.

I text him at 9.15 to ask if he's on the train-no reply, suspicions raised. I checked the train times and the last train back left at 18.30. I tried ringing and his phone went straight to voicemail. He's lied to me! I'm shaking and trying to act normal whilst snuggled up watching a film with DD. I'm not stupid and he's fucking cheating on me isn't he?

He sounds like an inconsiderate prick.

He can't contact you to say he can't get home - but works out a way when he wants a lift back home.

I'm ok capricorn thanks for asking. DH slept on The sofa so had to get up when DS did. He looked rough but mowed the lawn & took the DCs & dog out to the park so I could write an essay. I fully accept his version of events and deem him an weir rather than a twat. Normality is restored.

Weir = Eejit

OP I'm glad that he got back safely. and that you are back to 'normal'

But can I ask - how and why did you 'warn off' a lesbian friend from him? What on earth would a lesbian want with him? Or vice versa?

I can't beleive a lesbian would 'prick-tease' either. What would be the point?

DH and I have talked and we're OK. I've been a workaholic, we haven't spent any quality time together lately and we need to make more time for each other. - and basically it's your fault? For being a workaholic?

Shame.

Feeling goady ptumbi?

Sorry OP but no one asked you to post about your partner's shitty behaviour and your presumptions of infidelity.

If you want to splurt out all that, plus dodgy behaviour with bikini pics, the fact that your husband books hotel rooms/crashes on women's sofas, goes off grid etc - then suddenly minimise the whole thing and pretend it's all fine, yes, you're probably going to be on the receiving end of what you deem 'goady' posts.

It's okay to admit your relationship isn't perfect (whose is?), you don't have to bin it over nothing, but don't get annoyed with people's feedback when you asked for it then suddenly switch to 'all fine nothing to see here he walked the dog'

hen suddenly minimise the whole thing and pretend it's all fine - not only 'fine', but your fault??

Don't post any answers if you don't want to, but please re-read your own thread, maybe next time it happens, and think about what you are doing.

Not facing up to not trusting your H is your prerogative but how many times can you realistically downgrade his lies to just acts of 'twatery'?

Just following your story - did your DH turn up?

• sorry, my computer was slow - just read he slept on sofa! Hope it all turned out ok.