DH has gone missing

[HeadWrecked26]

Name changed for this as I don't want this attached to my usual name.

Long story short DH (and his friend) has gone missing and I have no idea what to do!

He went out to friends on Sunday evening around 6. He called at 9ish said he was staying out but would be home approx 10am Monday morning.
All fine as he didn't have work etc etc.
I had a message from his friend st around 2pm Monday saying that DHs phone has died and that DH is really sorry he is late but he'll be home by tea time.
Since then no one has seen or heard from DH or his friend.
I've checked the police custody suite, hospitals, as many friends that I can think of and been round to friends house but obviously no one was there.
I'm worried sick, I can't sleep, can't eat and my anxiety is only letting me think the worst has happened.

I know this is about ranty, sorry for that! I just needed to talk about how scared I am. Can anyone think of a logical explanation to where they could have got to? I need abit of hope that he's okay!

Does he work? What's happening about that?

Does the friend live with anyone else?.

Nobody with a key?

I was wondering about work. also, does he take any medication? has he seemed unwell lately?

I'm baffled as to how a grown man checks out of his life for five days and the only one to notice is his partner. what about his parents?

I can think of a few reasons for this and none are great. Bestvisxppssibly going to France to the football (though how with no wallet, passport etc) and getting into the middle of some of the trouble and getting arressted. It's a tremendously long shot though.

4 days? Does your husband have a job? Does your friend have family?

Gosh.

Sorry you are going through this HeadWreaked. I think his friend contacting you, instead of your dh borrowing friends phone and contacting you himself is very strange. Unless your husband were unconsious, why would his friend do that? Was it a voice mail, or text? Don't delete it, just in case foul play is suspected. Good luck.

Sounds very worrying, OP. Really hope he turns up safe and sound.

Call his work.

I hope he turns up safe and very very soon

My only thought - and it's not great - is that friend has a carbon monoxide problem at their home, and they are both still at his house.
I really hope it's something else though. Hope he's home soon HeadWrecked26

Hope you have some answers soon op, can't imagine how helpless you must feel - do you have rl support?

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There's no real proof that the Manchester pusher exists, it looks like there are bars along the canals and the people are getting tipsy and falling into the canal.

How long have you been together OP?

If

This happened to my friend...he was asleep on a train platform having missed the last train home...hope things are ok now x

My guess is they've all pissed off to the euros too, and if he has I wouldn't let him back home again. Being left with a young child by yourself while he pisses off isn't nice. Please check your banks even if he's got no card some banks will let him draw money out.
Go further back on the bank statements and see if he has been' saving' for this by transferring money. He may also have been loaned the money by a friend.

I'd try to contact his extended family, all of his friends that I can think of and their girlfriends/ wives.

Surely not for 4days Petal?!

This sounds seriously odd - are there any friends of hte friend you can contact? Is he meant to be at work? Has he contacted them?

Wtf????

If my OH ever pops off for a bit there's no way I'd come on here I'd be phoning Interpol instead

Manchester Pusher? Carbon monoxide??

I would wonder why friend would text you, and not your dh....

petal for 4 days?!

Has he turned up yet?