partner of 11 years left me

[mummyof2lilboys]

Hi,

New here!.. Well my partner of 11 years left me 2.5 months ago! We have 2 gorgeous lil boys together!.. Our relationship was fine (regular sex to) so it came out of the blue for me! We had a few downs last year but got over them together and we moved into a new house 8 months ago!.. His reason for leaving was the usual 'he doesn't feel the same anymore'

Well we had a family day out last week for my sons birthday (he asked for us all to go together!) and it was such a fun day we headed home and got a takeaway and me and ex ended up having sex when the kids went to bed!.. (Neither of us have been with anyone else yet!)

The other day he brought the pressies round for son and in the bag was my fave smelly candle and fave sweets! And today he (unexpected) rings me saying he's popping up to drop something off and he had brought me and him a breakfast baguette each!. He Still calls me babe, gets jealous over other men!..

But then as he was leaving he was telling me his plans (staying in a room at his mates at the minute) he said he's gunna be there for atleast 6 months whilst he saves for a deposit on a 1 bed flat!.. (So obviously no plans on coming back home!)

I'm just sooo confused! Do U think I'm looking to much into this?! And he's just being nice?! Or am i getting strung along?!

Thanks for the advice everyone! As he's been apart of my family for so long and I told my parents it was ok they are fine with it for now until he gets a new place to live!..

I haven't been on any dates yet but have been going out with my friends to the cinema and nights out which have been fun!..

Yea we got together when he was 17 and I was 18 was seeing eachother for abit before that!..

I just hope one day he will regret breaking up our little family and I will tell him where to go! (Does this even happen?)

I think he's done all this for selfish reasons he wants to be free, get himself out of debt etc..

Yes, it can happen. It even has its own signature tune, which might amuse and sadden you in turn:

Thanks ourblanche for that! didn't sadden amused me x