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Original poster

Anyone used an escort service?

37 replies

MissEmmanuelle · 12/01/2007 14:38

Name changed for this one - am single with 2 kids. Not had sex since DH and I split. Am thinking of using escort service....anyone else used one before?

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expatinscotland · 12/01/2007 14:39

Why do that when you can go on craiglist and find another married bloke ot service you for nowt?

hoolagirl · 12/01/2007 14:41

Why don't you just go out on the pull or visit ann summers?
Honestly wouldn't go down that road.

Original poster
MissEmmanuelle · 12/01/2007 15:07

don't want a married bloke
just want no strings attached sex
have no babysitter so can't go out on pull
anyone tried internet dating?

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DetentionGrrrl · 12/01/2007 15:08

if you don't have a babysitter, where are you planning on doing it?!

kittylette · 12/01/2007 15:08

not done it but go for it

whynot eh?

just be safe

Original poster
MissEmmanuelle · 12/01/2007 15:10

at home?

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mellowma · 12/01/2007 15:10

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expatinscotland · 12/01/2007 15:10

how do you know the escort isn't married?

if you don't have a babysitter, how were you planning to do it? have some stranger come over whilst your children are there?

RnBee · 12/01/2007 15:10

PMSL at Mellowma!

DetentionGrrrl · 12/01/2007 15:11

either you are joking, or very silly. You want to invite a stranger to have sex with you while your kids are at home?

RnBee · 12/01/2007 15:13

good point Expat. You mean you want him to come to your house while your kids are there?!
Why don't you get a rabbit? Or a babysitter?

Original poster
MissEmmanuelle · 12/01/2007 15:14

Suppose i wouldn't know if escort was married but would def. request a single man who is not ugly.

Would have them come to my home as can't go out in evenings.

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Original poster
MissEmmanuelle · 12/01/2007 15:15

whats a rabbit?

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brimfull · 12/01/2007 15:15

god wouldn't risk it .

mellowma · 12/01/2007 15:15

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DetentionGrrrl · 12/01/2007 15:16

hahahaha

sorry, but you can't be serious. a wind up, surely.

'Hello, can i have someone to come to my house and have sex with me...yes....yes....that's right. Please can i have one who isn't ugly, and definately not married.'

expatinscotland · 12/01/2007 15:16

Trip trap.

geordiemacminx · 12/01/2007 15:17

I'm hoping th OP means that she can get a babysitter for an hour or two, but not for the time it would take to go out on the pull and bring someone back.. that could take a few nights...

I've not been in this situation, but at least if she is paying for a service she kinda knows what to expect, and is in control of the situation.. as long as she uses a reputable agency then these men are vetted.. far more safe then pulling some random bloke on the street and going back with him or vice versa...

Original poster
MissEmmanuelle · 12/01/2007 15:17

well it wouldn't be quite that obvious - not definitely going to do it just thinking about it and wanted some input.

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nannynickers · 12/01/2007 15:35

It would probably be cheaper and nicer if you payed a babysitter & spent the left over on a night out!

mellowma · 12/01/2007 15:37

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madamez · 12/01/2007 20:49

A reputable escort agency will have vetted the escorts on their books, so they're not going to send an axe-wielding psychopath over. However, a reputable agency will charge you £100 an hour upwards - and a reputable escort might be a little uneasy about slipping you a custom length when your kids are there.
A babysitter would be cheaper - and if you're not having much luck in ordinary clubs and bars a good alternative might be a swingers' club or party, where there's a good chance of sex, and unaccompanied ladies usually get a) free entry and b) loads of friendly attention with no obligation to bonk anyone you don't fancy.
I don't know whereabouts in the country you are but if you want details of swingers clubs I can personally recommend, let me know.

jollymum · 12/01/2007 20:54

Madamez

madamez · 12/01/2007 23:12

Hey I'm only offering potentially helpful information... Rude stories of personal exploits cost more... :-)

BURNINGTHECANDLE · 12/01/2007 23:50

ha ha lets hear them then by the way the rabbit sounds the better and safer option and you don't have to fake it!

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