Your Opnion / What would you do

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OK so I have been with the husband for 15 years married for 2 and have 2 kids I recently went to the doctors as I was having problems down below and it turns out I have Clymadia I 100% have not been else where while with him, I then got another test to be sure and it tested positive - I then got him tested and his test come back negative? Now I'm confused - he turned round and said he hasn't cheated and the only thing he can think of is if he done something when drunk? He also hasn't accused me off anything bearing in mind that I've tested positive and him negative? He has recently had antibiotics for an ear infection - wonder if that would give him his negative result - just looking for your Opnion would you say he has cheated? He has previous cheated when I was pregnant with my eldest 6 years ago - and has anyone forgiven someone cheating twice? It took me ages to get over the first one but hard when you love someone but then the saying goes once a cheat always a cheat if I forgive the second time am I setting my self up for him to do it over and over again

It is almost as if he is trying to convince you that you have cheated, when you know you haven't. So there is only one possibility: he has. Sorry, it's shit after all those years.

have you heard of host resistance? you can catch chlamydia from sex toys too so if he has been with one then been with you and not washed he can transfer it or if you use sex toys and he has used them on her then on you again you can transfer it that way too (there is a 62% infection rate according to an american website)

Thanks for all your help x

Thanks for all the comments spoken to an STI clinic and have a post on the medical forum both say the same thing it's sexual contact and If I haven't been else where he has

Sounds like the anti biotics were for the Chlamydia not the ear infection and he's lied about having an ear infection to cover the antibiotics. Hence he is accusing you.

*isn't accusing you - eg he knows he's guilty!

Yeah that's what I find odd not going mad at me because as it stands I was positive and he wasn't. This happened a few months ago and even though I have left it is still driving me mad