I was in the supermarket earlier with DP and my two kids (they're not his), anyway I was pushed for time so asked the kids what they wanted for their lunch, they both said meatballs so I got a tin of meatballs and headed over to the counter. So DP stands there and said "eww meatballs??" so I just said "yeah they like them" so he stands there pulling faces saying "is that all they're having??" so I said yes, with bread or whatever, no time to faff today etc etc...so he asked if I had any spaghetti in, I said "I don't know, why?" so he starts saying "well I was thinking we should get some, I mean...at least boil them some spaghetti up if you're going to give them meatballs, that will be a bit more substantial than just meatballs...
By this time I'm getting pissed off, I wouldn't mind but he doesn't even live with us! and I can't stand being bossed around at the best of times so I ended up getting stroppy and said "well I've not managed to srave them in all the 8 years I've had them so I don't think we need you coming to the rescue of my poor parenting now".
Maybe it was a bit OTT but he did his usual "ooooo" noise which pisses me off no end and went in a strop for the rest of the day.
Now in all honesty, did he have a right to start critising and telling me how to feed my own kids? (bare in mind he's overweight so not exactly a great ambassader for healthy eating) or was I in the right to get narked?