Do you think he is lying?

[Angry009]

Me and my boyfriend have lived together for 9 months since our daughter was born.
He works night shift and now is saying he can't sleep here as its too noisy.
Although she never crys a lot and is at nursery 3 days.
I said il go to my mums during day so he can sleep but he says no il go to my mums instead.
So basically he goes to work at 10pm and finishes at 7am then goes straight to his mums house.
Comes here 6pm the next day till 10pm then goes to work.
Its like he doesn't live here.
He never wanted to move on really until our little girl was born.
This has only started the last few weeks.
Do you think it's strange?
It's like he is back at his mums place.

You are a disposable girlfriend. And he is not any kind of 'daddy' material. Start loving yourself. He does not.

Chances are you will find someone else, but first of all you need to learn to enjoy your own company and be happy alone.

I enjoy my own company and that of my dd so much, another man would really have to be prince charming for me to give it up.

On the up side, you can now formalise the arrangement with your DD. If she is not being BF he can have her every other weekend at him mums and you have her the rest of the time. That way he gets quality time with her when his mum does the childcare and he watches the tv and you both get 2 weekends a month off each.

I bet the posts you've got have been tough to read. How are you doing. Have you had a chance to talk to him yet?

Jesus love. You let him get away with cheating.
He's cheating again.
Messaging a woman from boredom rather than 'feelings' still isn't fucking acceptable!

You chose to have a baby with a man you weren't even living with, who had cheated on you, with whom you already had other problems to boot.

No amount of making yourself look pretty is going to change his personality.

Take your key back, take your tenancy back, set up finances and contact, enjoy your daughter, and do some serious work on what you'll put up with before you think about dating again!

The fact that you only drop in that he's a cheating bastard on page 2 shows just how unhealthily invested you are in staying with him.

I'm a single parent - it's fine. Happy daughter who loves and sees both parents.