what is in between?

[Lindsaysaysno]

If you have two people who are together

And it is definitely not just sex

And definitely not boyfriend and girlfriend

What is it?

what's in between?

I'm having an in between thing as you described but there is no angst about where it's going really and haven't discussed it at lenght, we are well suited but i think we are both aware our life paths are going in separate ways so we are enjoying it while we are crossing.

Sorry to hear that it isn't working for you

"Although, funnily enough, as soon as I said it was over - he turned the tables and said it was already a relationship."
Well done for ending it. It would only damage your self esteem to continue. As for him turning the tables - well, someone that inconsistent can't really be trusted, can they? And please, step back and look at it dispassionately. He's treating it like a transaction, not a relationship - 'paying' as little commitment as he thinks will purchase him sex . You are well rid.