I have 3 tattoos from before my partner. I love them he hates them but obviously can't do anything about them.
I have wanted a tattoo on the side of my ribs for a few years now and have recently decided I want it of a bird. Its quite big. He hates the thought and has said if I get it done he will think differently of me.
whilst he cant physically stop me getting it done as its obviously my body, it kind of takes the fun out of it knowing he will hate it. I'm sure if I got it done anyway he would learn to tolerate it like the others, but part of me would feel a bit bad getting it done and I know he would be mega annoyed for 'ruining my body'
would you get it done or not?