Please tell me am i being silly?

[swalesie]

My dp works away and he wanted me to send him some pics of me n the baby (via email)im really not good at computers and as i was messsing i came across his down loads, there was two vidios, one of Jorden,doing well cant wright it down here, and one of a ty lady (whore) doing other stuff.He swears that when he gets sent these emails (off his mates) that they end up logged in the downloads on the computer, and these were 2 that he just did not get rid of. Does anyone know if this sounds right? He's so bad at lieing, but even if its the truth, im still well pissed that he's been watchin porn with out me knowing! Please help!

My friend sends me questionable stuff, and short of blocking her (and thus missing normal emails) there is not a lot I can do.

So what he is saying is feasible. He needs to make sure he clears out his porn after he's watched it, for it to totally ring true though.

sounds like that is what happened, dont blame you id be well if dp was watching porn.

sw, just don't jump to any conclusions, although I know it's hard not to.

H has frequent emails from a company called Mate1. We had a complete argy about this a year ago, since his member profile had everything on it from his dob to (and this is the really funny one) "My friends tell me I look like Sean Connery". LOL!

But, talking to my best friend about it, she regularly has shifty, to say the least, emails from a company flogging Viagra, based in the States. We do too, and I'm fairly certain someone's got our email addy and it's an automated email.

Is there anything else that could make this all add up? I suspect not, and that's why you're in such a sh**e position. Just try and forget about it if you can. I didn't, and it tortured me.

Sending you hugs ...

Yuk, poor you. However your husbands explanation sounds perfectly plausible to me, just a shame you had to see it. Try not to worry, I don't think you've anything to worry about.