Dp leaving for good tomorrow...

[PeppasNanna]

We've had a temporary seperation. Got back together last month but its no good. I've asked him to leave by tomorrow . He ignored me when i asked him yesterday. Hes just told me hes going tomorrow.

I know its for the best. Its been a long time coming but why do i suddenly feel so panicky & sad?

We can't have a conversation. So nothing is organised about money or the dc.

I feel hes calling my bluff but i can't waste anymore years in this pointless, frustrating, uncaring relationship.

Just posting for abit of support more then anything...

Once i make formal changes I won't be able to go back...

So when he left in December, I decided to wait it our & then he asked to try again, we were able to. But if I had claimed benefits as a single parent that wouldnt have been an option.

Previously exdp carried on paying stuff in his name & put money in my account.

Ultimately it will get to a point where we need to make formal financial & contact arrangements.

He doesn't earn good money. Literally I'm expecting £70/£80 a week in maintenance maximum.

My top priority is to keep everyone calm. Exdp can't see why i wanted him to leave. Hes hurt/angry/upset so i dont want to add to that. Financially everything is very much in order rent is paid til the end of February so I do have some time.