I've changed names as I don't want my posts under my usual name to cloud any responses to this. Fwiw my other posts are mainly about another family member.
I don't really know how I'm supposed to react to this situation and to be honest I'm embarrassed to even post about it as it sounds so bloody ludicrous.
I've been married to DH for a few years and have one baby DD.
Our sex life has been pretty poor since having DD she's not a great sleeper and H works alot so I'm usually tired and just not in the mood when finally does get home late at night.
There's been a couple of situations that I just can't decide what to make of them and hope that someone can give me a rational explanation for them.
First was several weeks ago while doing the ironing I found a women's top in among my clothes. It was unwashed as stunk of perfume and was not mine nor any friends as if was such a small size I've got no friends who wear that clothes size. I asked Dh and he said he didn't have a clue about it. There wasn't really any reaction about it. I'd had a beautician over a few days previously and he suggested it was her top and had simply got caught up. To be honest it's something she'd wear and is a plausible explication. I did text her to ask if it was hers but haven't had a reply. She's fairly busy so not unusual from her. So I've pushed into the back of my mind.
We gone away for a few days and H has solely been with me since the weekend. Last night whilst getting intimate I found wrapped around his genitals a long ladies hair which is a completely different colour to mine so 100% not mine. I pulled it off and showed it to H who immediately tossed it away and pointed out he's been with me alone and he's showered etc everyday and suggested it's come from using the hot tub or pool at our destination. I know this sounds completely ludicrous but I just can't stop wondering where the hell it's come from to get wrapped around his penis and balls. He's worn shorts in the hot tub and pool so just don't understand.
Please someone tell me there's a logical reason to this and it's not as my head is screaming that DH has been near another women. Nev34 ever before this would I have said he would cheat in fact I'd put money on the fact he would never be unfaithful but I just can't explain this away