Two weeks ago me and partner had a domestic, which ended up in shouting and me being pushed to the floor. The police were called as our 16 month old son was present & saw what happened. Tonight we have the social services coming round to see myself and son without my partner being present & we are really worried as to what will be said etc. This is the first time the police have ever been called, as well as the referral to the social services, & we have been told that the social services will give us an ultimatum of either separate or have our son taken off us. Can somebody please help us on this situation as we both are petrified of what will and wont be said. Does anybody know the procedure & if this being the first and only occasion, whether they will still say the above about splitting or having our son taken away. This isn't something that happens regularly and was a one off occurrence where things just got too heated. Please no remarks as we know the situation shouldnt have happened in the first place, especially in front of our son.