Me Again. I know who the OH is now ....

[MissPiggyandKermitsLoveChild]

.. and he is still denying it. Even though she has started tagging him in her fb photos. Random photos of places and check-ins each one tagging him, one hundred and fifty miles away from where he told me he was going to be today.

What a totally shit way to find out. Utterly devastated.

Oh no. I'm so sorry your instinct was correct. Was it the colleague that you suspected?

I found out in the same way - I'm sure the OW did it on purpose to let me know. It's a shitty thing to do

I am rather late back to this thread as this week has been a little bit stressful to say the least.

Thank you for all your comments.

No, it is another female that he has a work connection with. So, all the other stuff with the other woman was clearly a smokescreen. Acute Mentionitis of another woman to throw me off the trail, how clever is that?

A few pics of her at work functions on his laptop, they were and have been attending functions together. Whether they go as a "couple" I have no idea.

Devastated.

So what is your next step?
Have you packed up his stuff.
Have you told him you know yet?