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Why won't he meet up with me?

35 replies

Chaime · 29/10/2015 20:11

Note: I know for a fact he isn't married. He definitely isn't married. I also doubt he's in a relationship, due to the nature and timing of our communication.

I've had an online flirtation with a guy for the last few weeks. He made frequent references to wanting us to meet up but as the distance between us is so great, I didn't think it was a serious possibility until a couple of weeks ago, and now I'm in his area visiting a friend.

Now although the messages have continued...and he keeps constantly complimenting me and saying how he wants to see me so much...it's excuse after excuse as to why he can't actually meet with me! Most of these centre around work.

It's so bizarre. He said we will meet 'eventually' and I've got to trust him and he'll make it up to me but...wtf. I have two days left here and he still hasn't changed any plans to make an effort and see me. My friend is calling him a douchebag lol. Is my friend right?

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Chaime · 03/11/2015 15:51

Another update sorry.

Wtf! The original guy in my OP just msged me asking me to tell him everything about how my trip went. I honestly thought I wouldn't hear from him again. Why would he do this? What game is he playing :/

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Katie2001 · 03/11/2015 15:55

He's playing the attention seeking game. If you've found someone else, I would just focus on them.

TendonQueen · 03/11/2015 16:00

Ha ha! Ignore. Or reply 'If you'd been there, you'd know! Grin' and then ignore.

Chaime · 03/11/2015 16:03

Haha, I'm after the best reply Grin

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pictish · 03/11/2015 18:08

"Don't be stupid."

pictish · 03/11/2015 18:08

Then ignore obv.

SlightF0x · 03/11/2015 18:16

I like that "if you'd been there you'd know".

Then ignore him.

Unless you want a penpal.

Seeyounearertime · 03/11/2015 18:23

I said this in another thread too lol.

Reply with,
"Who is this?"
Then ignore every txt and call.

Grin
HortonWho · 03/11/2015 18:24

Who is this
-he replies
Oh, right. I deleted your details when you couldn't bother to meet me. Not interested, sorry.

Chaime · 03/11/2015 18:34

It's been a few hours so I won't reply with the excellent suggestions above unless he tries again. Knowing him he probably will...

Anyway I'm having fun flirting outrageously with the new guy Wink

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