men! being scared of commitment

[AMAZINWOMAN]

my ex came round last week-to return stuff, and he still loves me, i can see it in his eyes.
however, 7 weeks ago he said he doesn't want a serious relationship and he felt cold, although he loved me. he said he wasn't going to change his mind
he has problems with his ex-she dumps kids on him all time and doesn't allow him to have a life
(after she found out about me) so i know he is also scared of failing me
i told him 7 weeks ago that i still loved him, and he said he had a girlfriend-although i know he was lying and said it to get me off his back
i miss him, and wish we were together-whya re men so scared of commitment?

please please please be careful. i ahd this with a chap i know. i later found out that when he was seeing me, he was still sleeping with her - to be blunt, i ended up prone to thrush - it may be a little tmi, but if it stops someone else getting it then it's worth it.

Please get a book called " He's just not that into you"

It's not that men are scared of commitment.

This particular man does not want to commit to YOU.

Don't waste your time.
Move on.
Good luck