He sent me the wrong message on whatsapp

[Nevergoingtolearn]

I am hoping I'm being silly, seeing a new guy, we talk a lot on whatsapp as he lives quite far away ( see each other at weekends ), last night I told him I was going to sleep at half ten, he said 'goodnight' etc... 10 minutes later I get a message that made no sense followed by another, neither were anything interesting but they ended with lots of xxxxxxx's , I then get a message at 5am saying he doesn't know where these messages come from. I haven't replied to him as I'm not sure what to say . Why would a man put kisses on the end of a message unless it's to a close family member or his girlfriend?

Am I being silly by worrying? The relationship is very new and after being messed around by several men I don't feel I'm ready to trust him.

What do I say to him? Do I just ask who the messages were meant to be for?

My OH regularly adds kisses or even a row of hearts to his mates as he is used to messaging me! I think it's quite believable actually.

As a man it sounds very dodgy. I think he is probably shagging someone else. Sorry.

To wind my mates up I often put kisses or hearts or refer to going for a drink as a date. so it does happen but I would admit that, not pretend they were ghost messages.

I thought exactly the same as another poster, why would his mate think he's mad for putting kisses on his messages when he didn't send them to his mate ???
It's early days and he's already tying you in knots,six months down the line your head will be fucked.

Easy

Ask him to screenshot the conversation with his mate to prove it.

Agree with others, ask for a screenshot of the convo as it will show times! If he's nothing to hide he won't mind doing it.
Hope it turns out ok

I say liar he is.

Too much going on which is confusing you! Is it worth the hassle? Fwiw, my ex was a serial cheater, he would text with the wrong message a lot, but I didn't know, because most of what he'd say to me, he'd say to his other women too. It was a shit storm of stress and unbelievably not worth it. I'm with the bin him brigade. Inconsistencies usually equate to lies in this scenario.

Any update never?

Here's a line for you

You're in a new relationship and it should all about fun and good times not this much headfuckery, move over the line above, move on with life and leave him in the past.

I'd give him the benefit of the doubt.

Update, not a very exciting update, I met up with him today, I am pretty sure he was telling the truth, I didn't ask to see his phone ( didn't seem right ), he seems a lot more into me than I am him and he does come across as the type of person that could easily put kissess on the end of any message, he quite ummmm 'in touch with his famine side ' .

Hope it all works out :)