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Online guy sent an awful photo...

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Tomfoolerywot · 12/10/2015 16:03

Been chatting to a lovely guy online for the last couple of weeks. Things were going great and he has been sending lots of pics which made him look fab.

However last night he sent one of him in a more natural smiling pose and it sent dread coursing through me! He looked so different. I can't get it out of my head and am berating myself for being so shallow...but maybe that's what he'll look like when we meet at the end of the month?

I'm so horrid but I really miss fancying him :( what should I do?

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Nevergoingtolearn · 12/10/2015 20:34

I met up with a guy who looked nothing like his picture, I had been talking to him for a while before we met, on his profile picture he looked tall, slim and clean shaven, when I met up with him he was tall, fat and had facial hair, it kind of destroyed everything as I fancied the man I saw in the profile picture.

Do meet up with him, people tend to look different from photos, the man I am seeing now looked much better than he did in all the photos he sent me.

Tomfoolerywot · 12/10/2015 21:02

I've just Facetimed him and he's gorgeous. Must have just been an off pic. We're meeting this weekend and I'm so excited! Thanks all!

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LikeASoulWithoutAMind · 12/10/2015 21:20

Yay! You'll have to report back OP Smile

BeanIontach · 14/10/2015 15:27

Yeh I went out with a guy who was miles better looking than in his photo! I didn't tell him that though.

My friend went out with a man, nice photos, good profile (she sent me his screen name and I checked him out). she met up with him and he was handsome but he had the squeakiest voice she'd ever heard. His voice was higher pitched than hers.

Tomfoolerywot · 15/10/2015 12:10

Still going well :) he's skyped every night and keeps msging me in the day - think he's keen! He also keeps hinting and joking about getting into a relationship but said once that he's 'too young' - he is younger than me - not that I mind Grin

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