Why do I want your new address stbxh????

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We don't talk, if I can help it. He moved recently. Children have been there last weekend for usual EOW contact.

I need to fill out a divorce form for one, but that's not actually really why I care to get his new address.

Perhaps the school might like to know. Or our childminder. Or the counsellor his DD is seeing because he is a twat.

Lots of reasons. So help me MN. How do I reply to his sir twatness ...
My email; can I have your new address please?
His reply; why do you need it?

ODFOD

Gosh. I feel like Mrs C.
This really is cathartic.

I think I would go with

So I can post you a bomb or a turd or both and blow up shit

I would probably say 'i dont want it, my solicitor does. HTH'.

I went with....

Really? Do you need to play stupid games?

Legally you should provide it to the school, their childminder and me because I have the legal right to know where they are at all times.

Regarding school and CM, consider that perhaps it might be useful in an emergency.

And consider that it will speed up the divorce process seeing as the court form requires it.

I finished with
Thank you very much.

I think you made a good call OP. Did you get some kind of sensible adult response?