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Whats app hmmm.....dodgy?

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dinkywinky · 23/08/2015 21:35

I downloaded Whats app to my dc phone just now (I don't have it)

It came up with a couple of names in dc phone who were inviting him. One was my partner who came up. It said 116 days 3hrs ago. My name did not come up because I do not have What's app installed.

My partner does not have it installed on his phone; so does this mean he has a secret phone somewhere with it installed? What does this all mean?

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lifesalongsong · 23/08/2015 22:59

I'm glad you've said that toastedstoat, I thought I must have imagined the fact that it came with mine, I was 99% sure I hadn't downloaded it.

I've never heard of snapsext but even the name sounds dodgy on that one.

dinkywinky · 23/08/2015 23:06

Yes, it makes sense there's no secret phone. Thanks all you lovely ladies who replied.

Yes unfortunately there's a website called Snapsext!

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dinkywinky · 23/08/2015 23:10

I thought maybe he was using what's app to message the girls on Snapsext. Obviously I can't see those texts on video. I don't like porn but communicating with other women is just taking the Michael.

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dinkywinky · 23/08/2015 23:11

I meant see those texts on our phone bill! Sorry bit tired.

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Hellokitty105 · 23/08/2015 23:13

The suspense is killing me! When was he last online!!? Did you find out?

SistersOfPercy · 23/08/2015 23:14

My mother shows as having WhatsApp. She's nearly 80 and the mobile she has is one of those big Button ones that doesn't even have data.
What's app is odd like that sometimes.

dinkywinky · 23/08/2015 23:23

Lol hellokitty, yes I did press it but it just said hi I'm on what app and the only thing I can see is 100 odd days ago. Nothing recent!

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ShitHappens1 · 23/08/2015 23:25

You need to press send message then on that screen it will show you when last online

brokenhearted55a · 23/08/2015 23:25

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dinkywinky · 23/08/2015 23:33

No it definitely said he was using what's app and another boy in his contact list said AVAILABLE.
It invited me because I don't have it. I meant that it was telling my son to connect with his dad because he's a user. His dad definitely doesn't have the app on his phone I just checked.
I deleted what's app from my ds phone now, so can't do the last seen on line thing again untill tomorrow. But it didn't say anything other than 100 odd days ago even when I pressed send message.

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mummyneedinganswers · 23/08/2015 23:35

16mb of snap sexy is nothing u could use 16 mb just by opening up the website and clicking a link so I would definitely say your husband wasn't using snap sexy as there isn't enough data usage there to actually have been used. As for whatsapp. Your husband downloaded it a while ago and obviously deleted it. When it came up invites to your sons Fone people can send your son an invite so that he gets the app. I don't think there's anything dodgy at all there maybe your just paranoid

mummyneedinganswers · 23/08/2015 23:37

Snapsext*

And the reason I know that's not enough usage for him to have used the site is I worked for an upgrades team for a Fone company and reviewed people's data usage on a daily base and 16mb really is nothing I go through 8gb a month at least

brokenhearted55a · 23/08/2015 23:37

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dinkywinky · 23/08/2015 23:41

Yeah Im probably paranoid now after all the finding profile pics of a girl of about 25 on my computers photo stream and seeing lots of women he looked up on sites and never getting straight answers about who they were.

Never really felt much trust after that.

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mummyneedinganswers · 23/08/2015 23:43

But you never said you found all of that just face him and ask him straight

dinkywinky · 23/08/2015 23:50

That was a couple of years back and I did ask him who the fuck it was, but he just says he didn't know and it was a random girl. But it was definitely a profile pic but I have no idea where from.

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dinkywinky · 23/08/2015 23:54

Anyway it looks like he's not up to anything now! Must say I'm surprised! Thanks everyone for taking time out to explain things to me. Much appreciated.

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chrome100 · 24/08/2015 12:47

You still show up even if you've deleted Whatsapp.

People were still messaging me on it even after I'd deleted it and at no point was there an indication to the messenger that I didn't have it any more.

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