He responded asking if he could have the children next sat,no time! I have asked him for a set day/time so the children have routine as I'm sick and tired with him having contact around his social life.its not hard to choose a set day/time and stick to it.if for any reason he has unexpected urgent issues/problems then he can rearrange a contact day.
he said he would like to collect the children not from the house but just around the corner from the house,he is asking that the children meet him at this location,it is literally around the corner infront of 2 other houses on a grassy patch.he said he will call 5 mins before he arrives at the location and then again to say he's collected them.
I have responded saying he can collect them from the house,his wife will be with him as she apparently doesn't want him coming to the house alone.ive told him that I will say my goodbyes at the door and see them to the gate,we don't need to make any eye contact or exchange any words.
anybody got any advise? AmI in the wrong? he's very controlling and I need to put my foot down,also I think if he collects them from the house we will be keeping things as amacable as can be,it will be less disruptive on the children,they've been through enough change,just want to keep things as normal as can be.