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Male friend visiting

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feelingsad75 · 16/08/2015 15:33

Have been going out with a woman (41) for about six months

She has invited her male friend over from Australia to stay with her for 2 weeks then they are going on holiday to Spain for a week

She has a 1 bedroom flat but she says he is sleeping in the front room

She also says it is a platonic friendship which I kind of believe

Anyway he arrived yesterday and I'm having a lot of trouble coping - I feel like I'm being disrespected and am a bit jealous as she doesn't actually go out (dates) with me much but is going out with him virtually every day

Any advice on how to cope (got a bit drunk last night :-( )

YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 16/08/2015 17:53

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