Talking about hot women with his friends

[sttf01]

Hi,
Is it ok for DH's to text their mates about all the hot women they see/work with/waitresses etc?
I've found some messages on my OH's phone (I went to Google something & it was there staring at me) and I'm really upset at how disrespectful it is.
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What's disrespectful about it?

Op do you just think he feels the need to make his mates and brother think he has an amazing job with hot women everywhere? They may not even be real. Men are so competitive with the stupidest of stuff.

It sounds pretty saddo, why would his friends care that he'd just seen a random hot woman if they aren't there? Can't get my head round it really.

Hmmm. Well I have been known to text my sister or a friend, "Just met my new GP... He's fit as fuck!" but it's not like a regular weekly occurrence or anything.

If he's the one saying "woaaahh this bird is hot stuff" and the people he's messaging aren't participating back, it does come across as rather sad.

I can see why you don't like it but I'd be horrified if my partner looked at my texts and tried to veto what I said to friends in private ..

Talk about immature, I'd seriously be looking again at a man that behaved like this, I mean, is he 12?

I would hate to be in a relationship with an inadequate man like this

he has to make himself look the Big Guy by objectifying unsuspecting women...pathetic