A "why won't he text me back" post

[itaintmebabe]

I hooked up with a man back in April, we were both in relationships and it was wrong but good sex. We hadn't met up since but kept in contact very sporadically.

Lately he's been contacting me a lot more as we've both ended our relationships so are single.

Last week we agreed to meet up, I went to his house for a couple of glasses of wine and ended up staying the night. I thought it'd be for sex only but I felt like we really clicked.

He talked so much sense and I now think he's one of the nicest guys I've ever met. He was saying things like "I really, really fancy you", "I've been waiting for this for so long", "your ex was an idiot for letting you go" and "sex with you is great but laying next to you cuddling is even better". So yes, a lot of things that made me really like him and I thought he liked me too!

I left next morning as we both had to get to work. He sent me a couple of texts in the morning and a couple of texts in the afternoon (he initiated it both times). This was Friday.

I didn't hear anything all weekend and then I sent him a text Monday morning asking him how his weekend was and he still hasn't replied! I'm getting really paranoid now as to why he's not replying!? Surely if he's not that into me he'd just say?

And I really felt like we had a connection so I'm genuinely surprised he's not been in contact. Please tell me something to cheer me up!

[DadWasHere]

Assuming he read it. What kind of an app was it? One that would confirm only send, one that confirmed delivery or one that confirmed delivery when opened by the recipient?

[itaintmebabe]

It was kik. I sent the message and it stayed on 'S'. Then I had to delete the app so the message was gone next time I logged in so can't see if it was delivered and read. But I assume it was.

[itaintmebabe]

I e completely caved