I finally understand the BJ thing!!!

[igetitnow]

NC for this (cube of poo, penis beaker and so on)

I finally "get" why women enjoy giving blowjobs.

I've always hated it, but I do it when asked to anyway, because well, it's nice to be nice.

I always thought that women who said they liked doing it were lying or something because I always felt too self conscious about doing it wrong or scared of choking to ever enjoy any part of it.

Well!! Tonight that has changed
FWB came to visit (I'm not a tramp I swear) and the reaction when I was doing my thing was bloody brilliant. Who knew you could have so much power over someone else's enjoyment

Now what else have I been missing because I let my self consciousness get in the way. I feel like there must be a whole other world out there that I should try

Bit of a pointless thread I suppose but I felt I wanted to share my accomplishment

[igetitnow]

Thanks for all the nice comments :) it's nice to think that it is possible that someone else will read it and also realise that things can be different to how they are

Can't afford I hope you find your someone special.

I don't suppose I thought women were lying, I just didn't understand it at all and I really didn't understand how anyone could enjoy it. I didn't get it.

Nicki I apologise that it is in here rather than the other board. Have mentioned that while I've lurked for ages I never joined until recently, I'm not able to post in the other board yet.

Bolshier he's coming over again during the week. I am looking forward to it more than usual

[igetitnow]

It being him visiting

[NickiFury]

I'm glad you're feeling happier and more confident .

[igetitnow]

Thank you :)

[MrsLion]

Sex and relationships are very closely intertwined. Funnily enough.

[NickiFury]

Please question someone else MrsLion I am afraid you won't turn me to your point of view.

[MrsLion]

My latest post was not questioning you, or trying to change yours or anyone else's point of view. Just stating my opinion and providing support to the op.

[NickiFury]

Oh the "funnily enough" at the end of your post gave it a rather adversarial tone I thought. But maybe I am wrong.

Sex certainly can be intertwined with relationships but pretty often it is not, many people have sex while not being in relationships as evidenced by the fact that OP is not in a relationship with her FWB.

Clearly I am not alone in thinking this, given the opinions of posters up thread and the fact the there are separate topics for sex and relationships.

Perhaps you could address your further thoughts on this to MNHQ if you don't agree. I know there was a lot of controversy when it was first created. Personally I am glad it's there as I think the message that sex and relationships go hand in hand and should be addressed as such, not a particularly healthy one.

[MrsLion]

I agree there should be two topics, but I felt OPs post was as much about her self- esteem as it was about sex and she was unjustly mocked and slapped down by a few posters.
To me a FWB is still a relationship between two people, it's just in a different form.
But we all view relationships differently. It's very subjective. No one is right or wrong.
I don't really care where this thread goes in all honesty! I do understand that hearing about the details of others' sex lives is not everyone's cup of tea, but those who want to share should be able to do so without receiving nasty remarks. I'm not suggesting you did- but others did.

[NickiFury]

Perhaps you should have questioned those who did make nasty comments then? I agree it should be tackled.

[MrsLion]

I did. I was also just very confused why people open threads they don't want to read.

[NickiFury]

And I have explained.....again. Hopefully you're not still confused.

[Threefishys]

Saucer of milk ladies?