H and I have had a crap time.
Our marriage was under a lot of stress and was essential miserable for at least 18 months.
Last December I found some very flirty emailsr between him and some woman.
They'd met five times for coffee. They were getting on very well. Too well. H claims they were two miserable people trying to boost each other about their partners' lack of interest in them. No sex apparently although had I not found out when I did, I think it might have progressed.
H stopped all contact as soon as I found out. He said to this woman he wanted his marriage to work.
So we've muddled through for the last seven months. He's doing all the right things, is very regretful, apologetic and trust is beginning to grow a bit.
Until this woman, after months of silence, sends him an FB friend request. I had predicted she would pop up again. He pooh poohed it.
H deleted it and blocked her. He said he did not know why she would think it appropriate to contact him as he says he was very clear to her what he wanted in their last conversation. He says he is always going to ignore any further attempts at contact on her part.
It makes me irritated that this woman thinks it's okay to come back into our lives again. What should I do about it? Just trust him that he will ignore any further contact attempts or should I give her a ring? I would risk looking like the hysterical wife as she's only trying to be friends, right? Except the emails I saw certainly weren't between friends!