Should I 'out' the OW?

[beerbelly]

To cut a long story short, I discovered back in March that DH had been cheating. He cut all contact with the OW, who is now travelling on the other side of the world with her partner, and is doing his best to make amends.

This morning I discovered her travelling blog in which her latest post is about working as a Nanny. It is very tempting to add a comment along the lines of "I don't think Mary Poppins shagged a married father of two."...

Should I....?

(Name of blog removed by MNHQ at OP's request)

Oh dear

The change you need to make is enough that I doubt anyone would stumble across this thread if they were looking for the blog. I have just done a search of the more relevant title and this thread doesn't show up. I hope that reassures you a bit.

She prob has one of those alert thingies that tells her when anyone writes the title

Yes a blog, possibly hers,+ this thread are on google search, I 'm afraid

Found the blog too.

I can't see the blog boo

best I googled what the op said theatest blog title was and it went straight to this thread and further down is the travel blog OP is referring to.

I'd certainly be very tempted. But I might word it in a more subtle way.

I can't find it when I Google it...not sure if people are finding different blogs....

Anyway, never mind. I am not going to do anything. Not bothered enough about her and don't want to create more trouble between myself and DH.

The only blog I can find with a similar post, the post is nearly two years old. I guess I'm on the wrong one?

There are two or three Blogs that come up on Google but I'm not convinced they're one of the ones you're referring to. The entries don't really follow what you've said about her and/or aren't recent.

Yeah Anon. It's not that one.

does she piss off travelling while her H is at home then?
For lolz?

I doubt anyone looking for the blog would be googling anything in this thread. The blog title is totally different. (If it is the blog I am assuming it is?)

I would however ask mumsnet if they can delete all your posts under your current user name, just in case she does come across it. Wouldn't want her bed goodnight able to see your posts if she advance searches.

Well, I bloody would - but that's doesn't mean it's the right thing to do!

Yeah, pretty confident people are finding different blogs as it doesn't come up when I put the actual title in. At ease sisters, don't post anything on some random innocent woman's blog!

I don't think I need to do anything. I am deliberately fairly anonymous on MN as I joined specifically for help with DH's affair.

If she did come aross this and figured it is her we are talking about, who cares?

OP it sounds like your husband has the upper hand, even though he's the one who cheated. Saying things like 'he got off lightly' and you 'don't want to cause trouble'.

Does she know you know?

No. She was his work colleague. I never met her.

I don't think DH has the upper hand. We are both trying to work through this. By saying he got off lightly, I mean I didn't go batshit crazy at him. I know he admires the way I've taken this in my stride for the sake of the kids.

oh dear - I hope you haven't been doing the pick me dance. I bet he admires you seeing as he has got away with it scott free. What cheating man wouldn't?

What is this dance people keep talking about?

Absolutely NOT marking my place....