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Is this a slippery slope?

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Tumbpin · 08/07/2015 09:37

Yesterday I realised by chance that dh uses tumblr and pinterest to look at "tasteful" erotic pictures - I guess that's kind of ok, but then I also saw that he had contacted two female pinners, sending them private messages complimenting them on their boards and "good eye", and asking one where she lived.... I'm not sure what to make of this?

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excitedbutscared · 09/07/2015 00:10

Oh, but not protecting the DC's from it IS unacceptable

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Botanicbaby · 09/07/2015 01:11

OP - I'm not surprised you find it seedy, it is! Truly pathetic behaviour on his part, how would he feel if you did the same and were asking the same questions of men young enough to be your sons?

What would I make of it? First off (if I really cared about him), I'd be pretty bloody angry and ask him a) why he felt the need to do it in the first place and b) why he was asking them where they lived! Then I'd be asking myself why I cared and questioning whether he was worth the aggro at all. The fact that you are posting about it on here is a good indicator that its bothering you, so I'd have it out with out with him, sooner the better.