ive told him its over & said we should separate.

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So after much soul searching I told him its over & that I want time out of our marriage.
He has responded by ignoring me or short sharp answers to anything I say.
I asked if he had somewhere to go & suggested his parents to which he replied he wants a place of his own & can't wait to get it as soon as he has some money saved. He's also promply removed his wedding ring.
Part of me thinks I should really stick to my guns & go through with it this time. The other part of me is in panic thinking "what have I done"
I know things are shit & we can't seem to get things better but do I really want to separate? I'm so confused now ????

I asked my H to move out on Sunday. He left on Monday. It is so so hard. Of course you will have doubts and worries about what the future will hold and how things will pan out.
I try to remember all the crap as I've also been unhappy for years and I hope to keep this in my head so I have the resolve to follow it through.
If he really wanted to sort things out then I think he would be acting differently. Either he's grateful that you were the one to make the tough decision and he's relieved or he's playing games in the hope you'll change your mind. Either way then I think it's kind of irrelevant as I don't think deep down that you really want to be with him anymore.
One question I ask myself is, if I won the lottery tomorrow, would I stay with H? I think you know the answer...