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Going on a date somewhere too fancy?

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itaintmebabe · 05/07/2015 21:36

I met a man online, met up with him for the first time two weeks ago for a coffee. He asked me if I wanted to see him again and I agreed.

He's good looking and very nice. I'm not quite sure whether I fancy him yet though.

Anyway, since we met he's been planning where to take me next time. He's built up a lot of excitement by texting me about what he's thinking pretty much every day.

He told me today what he's decided on and it's a super fancy champagne bar in the city. I had a look on their website and drinks cost an arm and a leg.

It's way too posh for me, and if he wants to go Dutch, which is something I normally insist on, I probably couldn't afford it.

It's making me feel super uncomfortable. Do you think I should cancel the date or insist on going somewhere else?

OP posts:
itaintmebabe · 09/07/2015 15:49

Thanks LuliSmile

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Thenapoleonofcrime · 09/07/2015 15:53

Yay, hope there's a second date planned, it sounds lovely.

toffeeboffin · 09/07/2015 21:20

Let him take you out to the fancy bar, he can buy the champagne and treat you. Forget this Dutch business, it's a first date!

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