vagina problem, sorry if tmi

[MyRightFoot]

i'm too embarrassed to talk about this in rl and hope someone here can say they know someone with the same problem.
when i have an orgasm with my bf my v muscles push him out really forcefully. i have no control over this and there are no issues in our relationship. the same thing happened with my last boyfriend. both men are well endowed so they are not slipping out. with another boyfriend, when i orgasmed my muscles would clamp round him and
he couldnt remove himself but would
have to wait until he was flaccid. he said it felt painful but not agonising. im middle aged, no kids and i feel like a freak. has anyone ever experienced
this?

Yep. Very strong muscles. Congrats!

This isn't it at all and it's definitely not a "congratulations" topic.

Reekypear has it right. It's a form of vaginismus and involuntary tightening of the muscles. It doesn't mean "strong muscles" it means you are not in control of them. It's the same a giving someone an involuntary slap across the face - sure it feels strong but that's because it's unexpected. That's not the issue, the issue is you lost control of your arm.

Myrightfoot sorry you had experience it before but it is mostly psychological - you should see your GP.

And not Lavenderice's GP who obviously doesn't know what they are talking about.

thank you self loathing. i think im confused cos it only happens when i orgasm. i will look into is. thanks again.

Actually, it may happen at other times but you only notice it when you orgasm.