Do childern change everything?

[RevelKina]

It appears as though yes. My husband and I were once a fairytale like couple. Now we're reminscent of a lifetime movie. Everyday he grows more severe, more old fashioned, more frightening. Not quite sure how much longer I can take this.
I really want to keep the family together, but I'm begining to lose sight of what it was I saw in him.
Advice, stories, anything?
Thank you.
Kindest Regards,
L.

"Everyday he grows more severe, more old fashioned, more frightening. "

what do you mean, these are very general descriptions, you need to be more specific.

also, what is "fairy tale" ? - sounds a bit unrealistic...

well having children IS part of that life-time movie

that's what life-time movies are BASED on i.e. life

as David Lodge once said "Literature is 99% about sex and 1% about having children. Life is the other way around."

oh i like that quote mp

yes me too

although sadly I think my sex life is now even less than 1% of my life

dammit

How old are your children?

Makes a big difference if under 2

Yes, I was wondering who those slappers are who're getting the Whole One Per Cent.

mmmm one per cent

that would be 14 minutes a day!

what romatic bliss that would be