Long time lurker here.
DP is a recent convert to Facebook. He is very secretitive and protective of his phone. He also has a new hobby which involves going away. Anyway he accidentally lets me looks at the pics on his phone. When I ask about a pretty brunette his first response is he does not know her.... Second she's a long lost neighbour from childhood he met at a hobby related festival.(!!!) Turns out he's been messaging her. I was kind of aware as I had looked at his phone. The lock down and aggression when asked anything had mad me twitchy. I suspect that he has arranged to meet her again from a message I saw.
He's very cross about the phone... Rightly so. I'm confused upset about why he can't answer any question with a straight answer. So am I over reacting?