Please give me your reaction to this scenario

[TwirlyShoePoo]

I've nc and I don't want to give any other background at the moment as I just want it know if my feelings on something that happened are out of proportion or not.

At best friends wedding (as bridesmaid). Lovely day. DH gets very drunk in evening (most people tipsy and he's not only v drunk person).

Later in evening DH keeps alluding to fact we will have sex in the hotel room later.

Then keeps on coming over and grabbing me in the crotch (from the front!) on the dance floor. I keep pushing him off hoping no one has seen. He does this around half a dozen times, roughly so it actually hurts a bit.

I go to the hotel room to get away and sober up a bit as feeling really upset and pissed off as I want to have a good time with my friends.

DH comes up, wants to have sex. When I say no way due to his behaviour, calls me a fucking bitch.

I leave and avoid him for most of night. He passes out. In morning can't remember what he's done.

I can give more background info in a bit but I'm interested to people's reaction to this incident on its own.

Thanks.

Plenty of people get shitfaced and never ever sexually assault or verbally abuse anyone, simply because that isn't in their nature. When I'm drunk I laugh and fall asleep. When DH is drunk his eyes go skew whiff and he makes very funny jokes (or maybe I just think he's funny because I'm drunk...) my point is, drink doesn't make you do things it just lowers your inhibitions and brings out things that are there already. Your H has it in him to sexually assault you, repeatedly, in public then expect you to have sex and verbally abuse you if you don't. He is a nasty bastard. You need to get away from him, asap.

I wouldn't often say ltb but I would certainly be thinking hard. It does seem a very nasty thing to do.

I'd suggest seeing a solicitor. I did this over a year before I actually separated with my husband. It's expensive, but it helps you see what the future might look like financially. At the moment, you are working off fears and that blinds you to the possibilities. Sorry you are going through this and I wish you luck.