So I've written a number of threads on here recently about my partner leaving, another woman was involved although they don't seem to be rushing into the throws of a new relationship.
At first I found it difficult to deal with, it was so out of the blue, with two children in tow my whole life was turned upside down. I begged, I called and text almost non stop for six - eight weeks. Then I just thought I can't do this anymore and with a lot of hard work I have ament the last six weeks maintaining little to no contact at all.
My ex was adamant he didn't want to be with me anymore, but always has to add the it could be different in the future his feelings my change - I think it's his way of keeping me latched on.
Lately though he seems to have softened towards me, he is offering to help more , have the children more, he stops to talk when he drops the children off and has also reverted to calling me by my petname.
I just don't understand the sudden change in personality, he was awful to me when I left, he begrudged any help I asked for, would lie and became very self centres. he is still involved with other woman but I don't seem to care anymore, I am slowly detaching from him.
Is he just being adult or is the sudden change perhaps him starting to miss us ?!