Would you call this sexless marriage? (TMI)

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Had to change my name for obvious reasons. This is really embarrassing, but I can't discuss this in real life. Would you call a marriage sexless if it involved oral sex 2-3 times a week, but no PIV? I just realised we did not have a PIV sex for over a year.

Mmm hmm to connection...

Have you tried insisting that you do enjoy PIV? If he thinks you don't enjoy it, he may be just thinking he is doing the best for you. It sound like you really need to make it clear to him that you do enjoy PIV even if it does not make you come. The PIV could act as the foreplay before the oral.

It sounds like he is not listening when OP says that, millie

I would not call this a sexless marriage but an intercourse less marriage.

There are all kinds of reasons - as we get older, many of the positions are incompatible with bad backs, knees hips. Women run dry, men run soft you get the picture.

Yes women can take HRT and men can take pills that drop their blood pressure, give headaches and blue vision etc.

Talk about it. But be nice.

@LanticLady this is a SIX year old thread you resurrected and it looks like you've only read the original post.

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