EXH threatening message

[forumdonkey]

My exh was arrested and charged nearly 8 years ago for assault on me. It wasn't the first time, there was numerous including him punching me so hard I lost a tooth.

Fast forward to this weekend. I have been NC for a few years as my DC's are 18 and 20 years old now. He has sent my eldest a message which basically says how much he hates me and he's going to get even with me.

WWYD??

Nicely done, ForumDonkey

And GeorgePig is there something wrong with you?

I think it's obvious that he's not playing with a full deck, Cleetus

ForumDonkey Have PM'd you.

My friend had an ex set up a fake fb and sent her malicious messages. They took it very seriously and contacted him.
Then he turned up at her door and they were there like a shot.
They tend to respond v quickly to 'domestics' now.

Good for you, you sound very strong.

That is an insult to people who don't play with full decks

Round of applause forumdonkey!

I notice georgepig's last name is 'dinosaur' - more dinosaur than georgepig I think. Outrageous antediluvian, deluded attitude from him/her/it, and nasty and pathetic to boot. Also spineless. Ignorant. Weird. I could go but what's the point. Though I do wonder if you'd be as happy to make these posts were this not an anonymous forum.

You rock, forumdonkey, let us know how you get on when you call the police.

That's the spirit ForumDonkey!

Bet Pigman feels like a right ass now

Best of Luck

My advice is express to the police how serious this is bring up all ur history n explain how violent he is if he say he gna do something tell police he will do it then I would recommend getting a solicitor and get a restraining order/ injunction for both u n ur children so he knows u taking action n this will be a lil safety net if u see him in the street u call police straight away n they will come out immediately

lil safety net?

Do you mean 'little'?!

Stop with the text speak!!!

reckon that's a specific net belonging to a woman named Lil?

ThingummyJigg

Why are you insulting dinosaurs?

Ups, missed poor dinosaur's reaction.

It's safe to assume that Georgepig is not a policeman.

A policeman would know that:

It's irrelevant that the threat was sent to a family member. It's usually called 'stalking by proxy' and is treated as if it was sent directly to Forumdonkey.

A PIN (Police Information Notice) can be issued to the EXH after just 1 incident. This could discourage further potentially harassing behaviour or be used in evidence if there is any further harassment to establish a course of conduct to justify a charge under s.2 or s.4 of the PHA (Protection from Harassment Act).

Cheers Marie

Hopefully you have now reported it FD. Your ex is an absolute monster and should not be able to get away with what he's doing.

Thank you all for your continued support and your post Marie - very interesting.

Just thought I owed you all an update. I have reported it and have an incident number. The police wanted to speak to me this evening but have rearranged for tomorrow. The shame of the DV all came flooding back while I was reporting it all

I told my son I reported it and he was very upset because I know he knows what his DF's reaction will be if the speak with him. I do worry about him and completely understand where he's coming from - thats down to the DV and EA.

I will continue to update with news and thanks again.

Your EXH needs to learn that his abusive behaviour will not be tolerated.
Some reading material for you:

www.cps.gov.uk/legal/s_to_u/stalking_and_harassment/

The only person who should be feeling shame is your ex H. I'm sorry you had to relive the DV, but hopefully you are feeling safer now...