Dating Thread 89

[Docmartensanddungarees]

Candle light and soul forever
A dream of you and me together
Say you believe it, say you believe it

Free your mind of doubt and danger
Be for real, don't be a stranger
We can achieve it, we can achieve it

Come a little bit closer
Baby, get it on, get it on
'Cause tonight is the night when 2 become 1

as long as you didn't go to School with his mother

Or he is best friends with your son but yes have to agree with Rioux it is what you have in common and enjoy doing together rather than the age difference. Jesy Mr P obviously hasn't got a problem, try and relax

Friday, yay! Hope everyone has a great weekend whether it is dating or having a break from dating; enjoy all

Britney I am glad that you and Mr Awol sorted it out but go carefully...

Awww Jesy you have to do what is right for you at this moment in time. We all reach different life stages at different times. I have mentioned this before but i had my family v. young. I have had responsibilities since I was sixteen. Now almost in my mid-forties I am responsibility free for the first time in forever and loving it!

My only other bit of advice is that occasionally try and do something with your friends that is mutually pleasing even if it is only a quick coffee. Friends tend to be there when no one else is If they are your true friends they will be thrilled at all you are doing now and even a tiny bit envious

I guess I thought it would have been fun , going to alone now my dad lent me
Forty pound so I can go have a hot dog and a beer and not be sat alone all day.

We went out last Sept but she had to go home early as in 7:30 as she had ironing to do .

Omg

I'm juvinlle apparently ,no job living at home having and wanting a tattoo
Apparently I'm not 17 any more no shit lol

She said it was stupid , tomorrow will be full of kids crowded and the bands will be noisy bloody hell we not ninety
She went on to say my profile pic wasn't appropriate lol as I'm in low cut top I'm not it's a vest top with a shirt over.
I've not messaged back.

But childish it might seem I tagged her in a reply on fb saying

Tar bit and bot for saying you'll meet me in town it be a laugh , sorry and my mates names you couldn't come.

(Bit n bot not really names are ppl who Mr post knows and I had a great day out with last year , he 60 add and she his kid)

jesy don't listen to people who try to put you down re stages at life (and I can see you aren't listening so good!).

I know tons of people of an older age who wear low cut tops, have tattoos etc and don't want pipe and slippers... if you want to have a laugh go ahead and do it!

britney - I know Mr AWOL has come good again but I'd be wary. I also wouldn't be putting your eggs into one basket and would be having the other 2 dates at least, but that's me.

Still juggling the 3 on POF and Mr Fireman got back in touch yesterday asking if I was ok and when could I meet him for a drink. He's now Whatsapping me...

Hello all, I am absolutely devastated my poor lovely Kiitty has been killed. Some lovely lady brought her to the house still warm. She has given me such comfort since I spilt with X. Can't stop crying. Sorry I know this is not dating news so

Oh Blossom what a shame I'm so sorry.

Thanks I am heart broken, I know it is only a cat but she was so beautiful

Not "only" a cat if you loved her (and she undoubtedly loved you back).

It's not just a cat ,it's family .

All our thoughts are with you xxx

Jesy I've seen you post way back and thought you were much younger(must have got mixed up. What I said about age still stands, it's not a big deal. As for acting like an adult. I have to be responsible most of the time but there is an immature side to me, I think it keeps you young mentally. You just keep doing what you're doing

Blossom sorry to hear about the cat, hope you remember happy times with her.

Blossom Sorry, I missed the post. Thoughts are with you, such a shame.x

Lurking

I've decided sod them life to short
Yes I like stuff they do in away
But I missed out as a teenager and I want more
I could sit at home tomorrow alone hoping some one will text but why not go out with a friend n her dad for a few hours
Yes I'm domesticated but well it still going to be their the next day
Lol
I guess we changed
But if I want to wear my football top or short skirt I will

Blossom

Hope this helps even just little x

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Jesy Some people have the idea that you're an adult and you then have to live by certain rules and standards. I don't think they actually want to live that way so that's why they don't want to see you doing as you please and feel the need to point it out to you. It's important and understandable for you more so to want to do as you please and feel youthfull if you've missed out.

Lurking thanks, am working but finding it hard to concentrate, need you bury her and is making me very upset

Sorry to hear that Blossom I still remember when my neighbour brought my cat home like that, it's horrible

Thanks scrambled the lady was really lovely, she tried to get me to hold her to say goodbye, just could not do it, was in a bit of shock I think am a bit regretful for not doing so now.

Blossom I understand how upsetting it is, especially given how it happened. I hope you have someone irl you can speak to. look after yourself this weekend

lurking My X came rushing over as my DS texted him with the news.

Hope ur ok blossom

Had better days jesy just wish it was not true

I know huni but we here for you

Thanks. Funnily enough I have been to chatting to 3 guys OLD and have told them this morning, has been interesting to see how they have responded. Not sure I could date someone who does not like animals. X was in tears earlier, cat really liked him