Blossom your 2nd date sounds lovely! I love doing fun stuff in the day on a date :). Don't panic, try and enjoy it! That's so great he always replies to texts.
Super yeah, its tough at times but fun at times too 
so I just try and focus on the fun bits! Hope your migraine goes away. That's great you have a date arranged for next week, hope it goes really well.
Britney - hope you have a lovely date. Tbh, I'd say no to second till first is done. The booking in of 2nd date before 1st is a bit red flag to me (a couple have done it to me and it just isn't quite normal... and they were both odd in the end). I'm not saying it def is but that combined with FB woman and AWOL-ness just seems a bit off? Really hope it is all fine though and good luck for meeting. Don't worry, I really doubt he'll even notice the difference between a 12 and a 14.
Really haha on the desk at lunchtime .
Jesy - That's not good of him to chuck her out when they'd planned for her to stay. Was he apologetic about it? I'd suggest she be really really wary of becoming a F-buddy/friends with benefits type arrangement. I wouldn't want to dtd with someone who didn't want me to stay. As he hasn't texted her back I'm guessing it isn't something to worry about although I can imagine he might text her in a while when he's bored and wants a shag and she'll need some willpwer then to ignore/ditch him :/.
Waltzing thanks - yes, it is good to think about how a relationship can progress just in case. Esp as I think men often expect the woman to move (maybe just my experience). If I'd been sure about Mr Y I'd have brought it up soon - I'm sure there would've been a way depending how flexible we'd both been. Hope your date on Sunday goes well - is he nice, do you have a good feeling, do you think you'll fancy him?? I'm thinking of muddy for my next foray into dating.
Newto really sorry to hear about falling out with Mr T - volatile doesn't sound good at all :(. Glad you had a really nice time with Mr BD. He definitely sounds worth a second date. I don't get the immediate attraction thing either but have been 100% attracted after a few dates so I think it's OK, it just takes a while to sum up a stranger and feel comfortable enough to be attracted. I totally agree with your last para about what Mr BD said aobut OLD.
I finished things with Mr Y, he was totally totally lovely about it and I feel very guilty but sure I've done the right thing. Just gotta ditch Mr T (friendship) when he next texts - he updated his profile and it sounds a bit weird now, I'm not sure I'd have responded to it. Then I'll be man-free (apart from lovely DS and idiot ex to deal with!). I'm going away this weekend so it'll be really good to just recharge and chill. I think I might have a break from dating, maybe for 4 weeks at least and see how I feel after that - please hold me to this??! I end up getting bored one evening and going "oh, I'll just see what happens...". But I need some time to just be by myself I think.