advice please,
we are pensioners , I am 69.
dh has recovered well from a "minor" heart attack (nurses words).
over the years he has had many "minor" things wrong with him, each one successfully healed etc.
fortunately I am still strong and healthy.
I have always cared for him, supported him, sympathised with him ,been as kind as I can, never letting him feel that it has been a difficult time for me (which sometimes it has been really hard to keep going)
we have literally no family here in the uk, all adult children living abroad.
now my question to all you wise people.
for many years, once winter arrives I feel the cold ,very cold.
my dh doesn't .he still wears shorts in November.
even today he was in the garden in shorts.
when the house...large 4 bed detached begins to get cold...., it's a bitter wind today, I turn up the heating.
my hands were like a stone.
it caused a massive argument with dh, the same one that has been ongoing for many years every winter.
at my age, it exhausts me, knowing that he will start moaning that I have turned up the thermostat......I pay all the bills....
sometimes I sit in the cold just to avoid an argument.
what can I do?
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