I poop when I orgasm......... not sexy

[escapingtheteens]

I dont know what to do about this, so far I have been trying not to orgasm.

My kids are late teens, and this is a fairly recent thing, so It's not due to childbirth damage.

It's the most unsexy thing in the world, i always run to the shower and cry while I clean myself up, the bf is very good and will change the bedding. God only knows what's going through the poor guys head.

I like sex, a lot, so I don't want to stop doing it, but it's putting me off, and as I mentioned earlier, I try not to orgasm, fecking awful situation.

Only time i'm not self conscious about this is when there's drink involved. I forget about the worries, then poop, and feel even worse!!!!!

HELP

Really? go to the doctor.

You definitely need to see a doctor.

OK, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt as you are a first time poster and do not mention name changing due the embarrassing nature of your apparent problem….

You should go to the GP as you may have a slight prolapse in your womb or bowel or vaginal wall or some similar problem, so that every time your muscles contract when you orgasm it affects your bowel muscles as well.

If you have teenagers I'm going to guess you are around 40+ so it's not an unusual to have problems in that area although I'll admit I've never heard of it having that effect before.

I would see your Dr and go from there.

Do you suffer from constipation? If you strain alot maybe your not completely emptying your self and when you "relax" after the orgasm then that's when the last comes out?

when you poo normally is it painful or loose or particularly smelly?

maybe related to a slight intolerance or unbalanced diet?

um not a Dr so can't say obviously but I think you should go see one

wow. a trip to the doctors is in order. also, mattress protectors.

how recent is 'fairly recent'? what happened the first time it happened?(note: for my sanity, no details - just, had you done anything....different?)

Really?!

oh dear.

Course you do.
What help do you want from a load of mostly women on the internet?
It's not crossed your mind to, oh i dunno, go to a doctor?

Right, trip to the docs it is then.

HowCanIMissYouIfYouWontGoaway, what help do I want from a load of mostly women on the internet? well, i was thinking possibly a little shared experience, maybe I'm not the only one this has happened too? A little support is always a nice thing, although I guess some people don't really go in for the friendly support thing, you being one of them.

You've got to admit it's a bit odd asking us what to do, instead of just going to the doctors.

I don't think posters should share their pooing themselves stories with you tbh.

Thanks guys.

You want people to share stories of them pooing themselves during sex?

Yeah, that's not weird at all.

There is a pervert who posts on here regularly. They are a poo fetishist and they try to get people to do that. And they make up different scenarios around them pooing themselves.
As a result of this person - who mn keep banning but who keeps finding a way back - many people are quite naturally sceptical about pooing myself stories, with or without a sexual element.
We have had years of their shit.
Pardon the pun.
If you are not them, then ii apologise. But you can see how i shit myself when i come, what about you...
Could be seen a certain way.
The gp is certainly the appropriate course of action for someone who did have this issue.

Really, a poo fetishist?
So that's what they meant by poo trolls?

don't worry, I guess I was just looking for support and someone to tell me I'm not the only one this has happened to, I'm really not weird.

I thought this was a site where a wide variety of subjects were posted about, i guess that childbirth and periods and dirty nappies are more sanitary than my topic, even though there was no graphic content.

Also, if people dont like reading about poo, why open the topic?

The internet isn't always a good place to turn to, keyboard warriors all over the place, they could be the sweetest person in real life but given the anonymity of a keyboard and some people just let their inner nasty side have free reign.

Hey ho lesson learnt. Sorry to have bothered you.

The internet is also full of perverts who like to post about shit.

I suggest we have a Shite Stuff topic for this type of thing.

Hey, I ain't no poo troll but I would be all over 'Shite Stuff' like flies on shit.

Thanks for the reports on this thread folks, we're conscious that our default position is to give the benefit of the doubt to new posters.

That said, we do advise all our members to be aware that not everyone on t'internet is who they say they are, and that, although we're awed daily by the astonishing support our members give each other through life's trickier twists and turns, we'd always caution anyone never to give more of themselves to another poster, emotionally or financially, or indeed sexually than they can afford to spare.

Thanks and happy Sunday

A GP is always the first person you should ask about medical problems. It would be highly unlikely that anyone on here would know what is wrong with you.
Go and get it sorted OP and welcome to MN.

I am shuddering at the word "poop".

@thornrose

I suggest we have a Shite Stuff topic for this type of thing.

I can't see that happening any time soon.

I think it is an Americanism arla

Op, you might have had a more helpful response if you'd have posted in health, and been a bit more succinct in describing your problem.

And yes, to 'poop'.

Thank god for that Olivia.