Family members that piss you off, over & over again. Every family has one of these right?

[jimijack]

Obviously I can't say anything but dear God I could let rip at my bloody sister & let her have it with both barrels if only I could.

It frustrates me SO much.

Every family has one though.

Who is it in your family & why do they do your head in?
Have you ever said anything? Did it help or was it a mistake in hindsight?

How old is sister, if she's legal and consents and no 1 finds out its good

My mum moans to me about it all the time.

You might feel better if you put in a boundary with your mum - if your parents aren't willing to stop helping out your sister yo their own detriment, then you don't have to keep listening to their moans about it.

Surely they don't actually want to damage your relationship with your sister ? Yet by subjecting you to this list of impositions they apparently begrudge, they're putting a wedge between you.

I think you should stop being an eager ear to it.