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How do you ask a man to wear a condom??

35 replies

NoRoomAtTheGin · 24/12/2014 22:04

We have both been sterilized but now after making love a few times, I would like him to wear a condom. How on earth do I ask him?? Im quite shy, What can I tell him??
Don't flame me please, its genuine

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BettieLeeloo · 25/12/2014 00:00

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LadyFairfaxSake · 25/12/2014 00:21

As above, don't ask him, tell him.

Viviennemary · 25/12/2014 00:26

Clutches pearls. Grin at wellie boots.

Clairej81 · 25/12/2014 01:15

Have one to hand and at the appropriate moment just say "let's put one of these of you". If he asks why just say I know we have not used one before but I think we should do from now on.

MovingOnUpMovingOnOut · 25/12/2014 01:35

Yup never ask. Tell. If necessary add "because I have the raging clap" as an incentive Wink Grin

I always put the condom on so i know it's done properly. Never had any complaints.

Paperblank · 25/12/2014 09:20

What winewinewine said.

Spot on!

lemisscared · 25/12/2014 09:29

i don't like condoms. i would however insist on them being worn until sti's were tested for. i think that you need a frank conversation. do you think it is likely that he has had sex with others during your break and have you? was your sti test after your break?

NoRoomAtTheGin · 25/12/2014 18:27

Yes it was after a break.

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dirtybadger · 25/12/2014 20:46

No asking. "I'll fetch a condom Wink". Sorted.

FrancesNiadova · 25/12/2014 21:18

If you're not properly dressed,
You're not coming in here.
Xmas Grin

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