isinde, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Sending strength and love your way. 
Big congrats to everyone who's off the booze at the moment. Believe me, it does get easier! Have just checked an online 'sobriety calculator' thing and I'm on day 84, apparently! This is amazing to me given that not so many months ago, I couldn't manage even 48 hours alcohol-free. The first days were hell and it felt to me like not drinking was a full-time job. I thought about alcohol literally every waking moment. It's a helluva lot easier now. There are big chunks of the day every day when drinking doesn't even cross my mind. I'm not lying, there are still moments when I really really crave a drink, especially when I see other people around me drinking, but I have to remind myself that even if I did have a glass of wine, ONE glass of wine isn't what I want. I want the whole bottle, and then another bottle. I want to keep going and going. And then there would be the inevitable aftermath: the hangover, the nausea, the headaches. So I decide that no, I won't have that one glass.
For me, getting alcohol out of the house has really helped. I did pour bottles of expensive stuff down the drain. I decided my sobriety was worth it. DH will sometimes bring wine into the house, but I've told him that what he doesn't drink that same day, he needs to pour out. Because I'm still not sure I could cope with half a bottle of chilled white sitting in the fridge. I'd rather not risk it. So he does actually literally pour wine into the sink when he's finished! We also have this slightly ridiculous situation where our neighbours (very good friends) are holding on to a couple of bottles of particularly nice stuff for us (or rather for DH) - this has come about because someone will drop round and give us a bottle as a gift, and DH wants to keep it for a special occasion, but he knows I'm too weak-willed to have it in the house, so he leaves it with the neighbours and then collects it from them again when the special occasion finally comes round. !!! Extreme measures, but hey, sometimes the line between deciding to drink and deciding not to drink is so fine that making the alcohol that little bit harder to get makes all the difference. 
hope, your DH sounds like a WB indeed. How can he not shoulder the financial responsibility along with you? 
Hugs to you.
ma, bravo for the valiant efforts; it's great to hear you sounding so cheerful. 
at the zip tag on the bestie's onesie!
Happy birthday to your 2-year-olds, jingle!
baby, that is grossly unfair about your nightmares getting worse the longer you are AF. 
I fervently hope you get some relief.
khalisi, I know exactly what you mean about emotions and memories being intensified when you're sober. I felt so raw, especially at the beginning.
venus, your post with the list of complaints was hilarious!
Bosies to you, wry, I hope you're keeping an eye on Gerald even when you're being quiet.
Sorry not to namecheck everyone, especially newcomers. The bus is hopping right now and that's a good thing, but I drift away for a couple of days and next thing I know everyone is flashing their naked bums at the windows (???!!!).
I must go to bed because an afternoon with the DC at the local soft play centre has reduced me to a wreck. God those places are exhausting! I'm afraid I had candy floss at the soft play and then clotted cream fudge when I got home. Oops. And then I wonder why I have lost NO weight since going AF. My hair and skin and face do look loads better though.