Think OH is watching 2 much porn

[pennylane123]

I've looked at my OH's web history on his phone (after he was on Internet dating a few months ago) and see he watches porn every day. Usually he watches it early in the morning whilst I'm still sleeping. At night he's not interested in having sex with me and if he does do it, he'll keep his eyes closed. He also lies about being horny in the morning. Should I speak to him about it, and is it a problem?

Feeling so ignored...and worry I need to just shrug my shoulders at it.

Help & advice please!

Cat mad mum -I'm so sorry to read your story

He does not love you. Your hopes are in vain, as is the time and love and attention you give him.

A man who had any regard for you would not treat you as he does.

Hanging around will not make him love you. Just more of the same shoddy treatment, and betrayal.

You are worth more than that.

Your relationship is very unequal. You pour love and adoration into it, whilst he dismisses you and treats you like shit. I doubt your self esteem will improve in this relationship, the more you invest the worse you'll feel when he doesn't reciprocate.