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I think the men on here can't really answer huge generalisations like 'is a man less likely to...' etc etc.
That's like me asking 'do women like men with tattoos' - Some do, some don't care, some hate them
What I can say though is that I prefer a woman who is attractive, but someone who tries too hard is off putting.
I have seen women's profiles (only on tinder) where they're completely naked - with no face shown, or mostly naked with a face too. I immediately go off them to be honest. If I'd seen the women dressed normally I may have been interested if their profile text was interesting, but if they seem desperate then I'm not interested.
Personally I think it's crass to start talking about sex with someone before we've actually done it in person, a bit of mild flirting to let them know I'm not made of stone is fine but nothing more.
If I were to only talk to someone about how they looked then that's because I didn't find something else about them more interesting to talk about, or I felt they needed to be swayed by sweet words of appreciation.
Does he give the impression that you're interesting, funny, or something else like that other than just attractive? It's easy to put people in mental boxes when you meet them through OD.